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You are either saying bullsh*t to avoid the reality of him or repeating things that he has given you as an excuse for his rubbish relationship behaviour.Have you ever spent loads of time analysing an email? Have you ever reread a text trying to gauge the meaning or read waaay more into it?Sometimes it involves flattery, sometimes sympathy, other times offers of gifts, money, or modeling jobs.It can also involve all of the above over extended periods of time.Wondering if he has a wife or girlfriend stashed away?Wondering why it took him so long to respond yet you know he’s been active within on his regular dating site because it so?This can totally ruin a user’s experience and force them to constantly be in pursuit of a better alternative.
There’s usually at least one glaring issue on every site that sticks out like a sore thumb.
If he relies on these means of communicating, you will build sandcastles in the sky because really, when you spend your time reading into things, you can make it any relationship that you want!
It’s one thing if he uses these forms of communication as secondary ways of communicating with you in conjunction with picking up the phone and seeing you face to face, but I certainly would not accept these means as your primary method of communication.
When a man relies primarily on text messaging, instant messenger, and email for communicating with you, it’s not because he’s a new age man, it’s not because the written word is his tool, and it’s not because he is trying to manage his time effectively. He is using ‘new’ forms of communication to control you and how often you both correspond so that he can control the relationship.
He wants to keep at a distance, and it’s likely that he’s emotionally unavailable, an assclown, or both. When a man is too lazy to communicate with you properly, why waste the air you breathe on him?