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If something is bothering you, I will trust you to let me know after you have spent some time cooling off alone.If you continue to punish me with your silence or fits, I will tell you how it makes me feel.In other words, by watching how others handle relationships.In early childhood, it is our parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, babysitters, and who ever else we were around on a regular basis.“Good fences make good neighbors”-Robert Frost What exactly is a boundary, when it comes to relationships?Simply put, a boundary is a limit or space between you and the other person; a clear place where you begin and the other person ends. You are the gate keeper and get to decide who you let in and who you keep out, who you let into the whole back yard, or who you let just inside the gate.
(Lifesteem.org/wellness/wellness_boundaries.html) Identifying where we lack boundaries is half the battle, for we can not change what we do not recognize.
We cannot be in a healthy relationship without appropriate boundaries.
If you are struggling with an unhealthy friendship, dating relationship, or any relationship, and need to talk to someone about how to set healthy boundaries, contact your IPFW Student Assistance Counselors at 260-266-8060.
Healthy boundaries do not always come naturally or easily.
We learn to “be” in all kinds of relationships by modeling.